I apologize for the, really, late post tonight... We're getting ready for a big event tomorrow, so, it's been busy around here...
With everything going on in life, most of us, still find time to gossip. Each and every one of us has done our share of gossip. Each and every one of us has been involoved in some kind of situation where we've been the cause of a gossip situation, been apart of it, or have witnessed it..
Most of the time, as a witness, the best thing to do is listen. There's never a good reason to agree and make the situation worse, unless you're involved. The reason why women, and some men, gossip is because they feel the need to get it out. So, just let them get it out, and, don't add to it, for your own sake, because, tomorrow, they might feel better about the situation, and then, you end up looking like the ass...
If you are the cause of a gossip situation most of the time, the best thing to do is try to mind your own business. There's no need to have an opinion about everything, or express them all the time.
Gossip is normally not good... Most of the time, women do it, because, I think, it must be in Estrogen. It's the only explanation to this sickness that overcomes us... Due to the emotional beings we are, we feel the need to express our emotions in any way we can, and, that's when all kinds of problems arise.
No matter what we may be feeling about a certain situation at one point, we tend to change our minds quite quickly... so, sleeping on it would be your best bet...
Tip of the Day: Try to always remember to keep unnecessary thoughts to yourself by filtering what goes through your mind and out your mouth. If you witness a gossip situation, just try to remember that there's always two sides to any story. Every one thinks they're right in their own way, so, give people a chance to explain.
"So live that you would not mind selling your pet parrot to the town gossip." - Will Rogers
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